The minister’s monthly column from our newsletter, CONNECTION.


Minister’s MUUsings May 2024 -- April 26, 2024

It is a joy to be able to take a deep breath and say that the contract is signed, my lease has been approved by the Board and Finance Committee, and I am here to stay for another year!
And what a year it’s going to be. In June and July, I will finish out the terms of my old contract, and take those two months to finish unpacking, plan for the new church year, and maybe go see my folks. I will be back in the pulpit on July 28th!
Starting in August I plan to be hard at work. Over this next year, you and I are going to recreate Adult RE, find exciting ways to tell Venice, Florida, and the UUA all about UUCOV, and work together to grow our membership. Your Board is preparing to set UUCOV’s goals for the next year too, and I will be working with each Team to discover how they can help reach those goals.
Over at VOTI my ministry will be expanding this year, and I’m already enjoying working with our UUCOV VOTI residents to figure out all of the things that we can do together to support them and to bring our UUCOV message to a wider audience.
As many of you know, Nancy and I will be moving into Asta Linder on May 15th. We are excited about being on campus, and we are both looking forward to being where the action is! I’m sure it will take a little time to adjust to having us there, but I have faith in all of us. If we are outside, please feel free to come and say hi! My office will be relocating to Asta Linder in mid-May, so if we have a private meeting scheduled after May 15th, come on over there. Larger meetings will remain at Waters Hall or the Sanctuary. I’m hoping to hold an open house sometime in October so that people can see all of the wonderful work that UUCOV folks have done on the Asta Linder building.
I can’t tell you how happy I am to be writing this, rather than a goodbye letter. I say instead, “Hello again. I’m overjoyed to be with you on this journey for another year. Where shall we go this time?”
Warmly,
Rev. Amy

Minister’s mUUsings October 2023 -- October 5, 2023

When I am home in the frozen tundra of the Midwest, September is a season of preparation and change. As I begin to get ready for fall, my thoughts always turn to the deeper questions in my life.

Why am I here?

What does it all mean?

Am I doing well?

I usually put away the patio furniture, and I give the house a going over, and I ready my cooler weather recipes- it only seems natural that I should also trade out my lighter summer concerns for things which require time, and slower, more thoughtful consideration.

Things that I can mull over during a brisk walk in the leaves, or while wrapped in a warm blanket.

Here at UUCOV, life is a little different. I just painted the patio furniture and put it back out, warm blankets at 90 degrees sound nightmarish, and the leaves are filled with jumping lizards I don’t want to step on.

But the season is turning nevertheless, and the lovely grey skies and cooler nights remind me that it is still a perfect time to slow my thoughts and examine the big questions as we swing ever closer to the busy final months of Search.

rainbow lightbulbYour Cottage meetings are about to begin, and these are questions to ponder:

• Who are we, and who will we be in the world?
• Are we doing well, and how can we fulfill our mission and vision?
• Who can we be?
• Who do we want our minister to be?

It is hard to believe that this is already my second fall here, the time seems to have flown so quickly, but these questions are pressing as we enter the last months before ministers will be able to examine your information packet and consider moving to Florida.

It’s all up to you now; it’s up to you to share your thoughts, and to participate in this exciting process. The more that the Search Committee knows, the better the chance of a good fit.

Enjoy the cooler nights and lovely days as our snowbirds fly home here to Venice. Take the time to examine the big questions. Help to move your congregation forward into an exciting 25th Anniversary Year.

See you in church!

Warmly,
Rev. Amy

Minister’s mUUsings July 2023 -- June 22, 2023

It will be about six months until the first ministers have a chance to look at our search packet, and to decide if UUCOV is the congregation of their dreams.
 
Six months to know who you are and what you want. Six months for Friends to decide if they want a voice and a vote in the ministerial call.
 
It’s going to be an amazing six months, as we continue to explore social justice, build on the information you’ve provided in all of the surveys, attend cottage meetings, and think about where you want your new minister to lead you. But your Board and Coordinating Council need you to speak out and step up.
 
If you want something to change, come to a Board meeting, or speak up at a committee meeting. If you love something UUCOV is doing, tell a Board Member or someone on the Coordinating Council. Go to the sources and speak your truth.
 
Whether you are near or far for the summer, take some time to think: if the new minister were to ask me today what was good and bad about UUCOV, what would I say?
 
And once you have your answer?
 
Tell someone. Tell Rev. Amy or the Board or the Coordinating Council. Bring up the great and the not-so-great in committee meetings.
 
Help UUCOV to truly be YOUR congregation.
 
Please remember, as you are thinking, that I will be on vacation from July 17- August 28, 2023. If there is a pastoral care emergency during that time, please call or text me on my cell phone- I will not be checking work email for those six weeks.
 
Enjoy your summer!
 
Warmly,
Rev. Amy

Minister’s mUUsings June 2023 -- June 1, 2023

Minister’s mUUsings June 2023

It has been a fruitful 10 months here at UUCOV. You created an amazing Search Team, and they began their work with enthusiasm and devotion. The Strategic Plan Team worked hard, talking with group after group, and you have a final report and summary of strategic priorities ready to be released and used.

We were hit with a Category 5 hurricane, and came away with minimal catastrophic damage, a new digital sign, and a quickly cleaned yard.

Nothing seems to be able to sink this marvelous congregation.

And there is more in front of us.

We are entering the busiest time of the search cycle- the seven months leading up to the release of our information packet for ministers to see.
In this time, you are going to be asked for all kinds of information, in multiple ways, so that the Search Team can create that packet.

The intent is simple; to find out who we are and who we want to be, so that potential ministers can decide if we might be the place for them.

There will be cottage meetings, and a survey or two. Whole church meetings to explain things, others to ask questions.

The Search Team, and the entirety of the congregation, need you to participate in this process. Understanding who you want to be your minister is essential for a new ministry to succeed.

If you have questions or concerns about the process, please talk to me or to a member of the Search Team. We want you to be heard, and your thoughts matter.

Warmly,
Rev. Amy

Minister’s mUUsings May 2023 -- April 24, 2023

It has been an amazing month at UUCOV.

The Search Committee is up and running, beginning the powerful work of making it possible for UUCOV to find a new minister.

Social Justice work has swung into prominence, and members of UUCOV have been attending Sarasota School Board meetings in an effort to disrupt anti-LGBTQ hatred. More social justice efforts are coming, so keep a lookout, especially as we partner with VICA.

VICA (Venice Interfaith Community Association) has recently welcomed two more UUCOV folks onto their Board, Pam Palmer and me, to join the already active John VanCamp! Now, as you are in Search, is the perfect time to explore what community connections like VICA can do for this congregation, especially as social justice efforts and partnerships become increasingly essential here in Florida.

I am also excited because UUCOV is sending five delegates to General Assembly. Being a delegate is an honor, and a bit of work. They will be attending the meetings where the business of our Association occurs, and voting the way we ask them to vote. Kathy Avery and I have two additional votes, as professional staff. Please take the time this month to understand the issues being voted on this year:

  1. The proposed language revision of Article II in the UUA By-laws (the part that currently has the principles and the sources). Here are some frequently asked questions about Article II https://www.uua.org/uuagovernance/committees/article-ii-study-commission/blog/faq and more information here at https://www.uua.org/uuagovernance/committees/article-ii-study-commission
  2. Voting for UUA President. This year, of the two candidates asked by the UUA Nominating Committee to run, only Rev. Dr. Sofia Betancourt said yes. Sophia is Assistant Professor of Theology and Ethics at Starr King School for the Ministry and has served as temporary Co-President of our UUA after Peter Morales unfortunate resignation. You can find out more about her here: https://sofiabetancourt.com/ . It is possible to run without being chosen by the Nominating committee, as our current president Rev. Susan Frederick Grey did, but no one chose to run this way this time to oppose Sophia. (Disclosure- I am a member of Sophia’s election support team, and I’m excited to support her).
  1. The 8th Principle Discussion. You can find out more about the issue here: https://www.8thprincipleuu.org/ . It is unknown at this time if there will be any voting on any aspect of this issue at the denominational level this year, but it is important that the delegates know how you feel about the idea of this Principle being added to the other seven at the UUA level. Note that this does not directly impact UUCOV, or UUCOV’s decision to adopt or not adopt the 8th

This is your time to shine as you work to discover who you are as a congregation, where you see yourselves in the future, and what you want from your minister. Though many of you are preparing to leave for the summer, the work will go on and you will stay in touch through emails, ZOOM, and YouTube. Please, take the time to complete the Search Committee Survey when it arrives in your email box. Give your opinions, speak your thoughts, share your dreams. Talk to your delegates and talk to your Search Committee and have a lovely time away if you are off to more northern climes for a few weeks or a few months!

Warmly,

Amy

Minister’s mUUsings April 2023 -- March 27, 2023

With spring right around the corner, the busy season here at UUCOV is beginning to slow but search years are unlike all others in many ways.

Your Search Committee is just getting started, and they will do a little more each week until we reach the flurry of activity that hopefully comes with a Candidating Week somewhere around this time in 2024. Over the next few months they will be asking questions, and searching for the stories and the history of UUCOV. Please take time to speak with your Search Committee as they reach out to you for information, hold listening sessions and small group meetings, and do all of the things needed to create a UUCOV Search Packet that accurately represents your congregation, it’s wants, and it’s needs.

Life is also pretty exciting throughout our UUA right now. General Assembly is open for registration and the calendar is available online. Go to the website and check it out: https://www.uua.org/ga. This year’s Ware Lecture will feature guest speaker Imani Perry (https://www.uua.org/ga/program/highlights/ware-lecture) and she is not to be missed. You can attend GA on-line or in person, and this year we are lucky enough to have three delegates attending in person and one virtually! Keep your ears and eyes open because our delegates, Marcia Smith, Jan and Steve Simon, and Pat Wellington, are going to be asking you how you feel about the issues they will be voting on at GA! They will also be proudly representing UUCOV in the GA Banner Parade, holding our new banner.

Whether you are a snowbird or a year-round resident, as spring begins, it’s time to ask ourselves, are we ready to wake and feel ourselves growing with new life? Just as we prepare our gardens for the summer, we are called to prepare ourselves. To give ourselves the tools and nutrients we need to burst into bloom. UUCOV is ready to keep growing and blooming, so what will you do this year to help your congregation live into all of its many possibilities?

It’s all here, waiting to be taken.

Happy blooming!

Warmly,
Rev. Amy

Minister’s mUUsings March 2023 -- February 21, 2023
As we head into March, we have reached a joyous time in the search process. You have selected your search committee, and they are preparing to begin their work.

So, what now?

Now begins the heart and soul of the search. You will be asked in multiple ways to think deeply about what you want to see in your next minister. You’ll be asked for your opinion on what is best for your congregation, and what its future should look like.

Your job is to help your search committee understand this congregation, and its needs and wants. Your job is to tell the truth, as well as you possibly can, about who this congregation is, and what it can be.

Because you don’t just want A minister. You want to find YOUR minister. A minister whose goals and hopes align with those of UUCOV. A minister whose skills support and deepen those already found here, and add a few new skills in the bargain.

My job during this time is to help you share this information, and to find the places where we can do good work together to continue to make this congregation a wonderful place to be.

We will look for the places where we can learn and stretch and grow, and for the places where we need to do some cleaning and polishing. We’ll find our triumphs so that we can share our best, and also explore any places where we aren’t yet at our best, so that we can find ways together to do better.

Over the past seven months you have proved yourselves to be a congregation of amazing ability, loving community, and astonishing willingness to learn and grow day after day. I look forward to continuing this journey with you over the next 18 months.

Warmly,
Rev. Amy

Minister’s mUUsings – February 2023 -- January 30, 2023

We are deep in the midst of the season and our snowbirds have all flown back here to Paradise to roost for the winter. It’s a joy to look out at the filled seats and to see people greeting returned friends.

And it’s time to begin an earnest look toward our ministerial search.
Over the past six months I’ve gotten to know many of you, and many of you have stopped in to get to know me. Quite a few of you have asked me the same question- “Why can’t you stay?”

I am so honored by the love and welcome you all have shown me, and by the serious requests for me to stay and become your minister.

I wish I could stay with such bright, funny, active people as yourselves, but I can’t. Nancy has one, soon to be two beautiful grandbabies we long to be closer to.

I am in covenant with the UUMA, and the UUA, and to them I have promised that I will not use the interim system to “go around” the search process. I have promised to share my ministry for a two-year period, and then go forward to another place. Your Board and I did explore this with UUA staff to see if other options were possible, but they are not.

And so, we are ready to find and seat a wonderful search team and begin the exciting work of finding UUCOV a settled minister. Once that Committee is in place, if there are things you love about my ministry, tell them about it! Tell them the things you want in your minister, the pieces that make you smile, or think, or deepen your own spirituality.

Search works if you are willing to share who UUCOV is as a church, and to be honest about what you want from the minister who will take up this journey with you.

UUCOV is a special and amazing place, and I am so grateful to be doing this work with you!

In Love,

Amy

Minister’s mUUsings – January 2023 -- December 28, 2022
The new year is here, with all the bustle and baggage and resolutions, and plans. The old year is gone, and it is time to quote “Frozen” and say, “Let It Go.”
“Put down the mistakes- you have kicked yourself enough.
Put down the triumphs- you have celebrated enough.
Put down the things that keep you standing in one place, either dancing with joy or wracked with weeping.
Weight is weight.
Let it go.”

Take one step – your burden will still be there where you left it. You can even go back and visit it if you choose. But put it down.Now that you are standing freely, where will you go this year? Who will you become when the weight of expectation and history is no longer clanking at your feet and pulling at your throat?

Who are you – right now, in this moment?

This year your congregation is asking the same questions of itself as you approach the search process.

Who are we now? What can we be as a congregation, if we dare to take another step into our future? And what kind of minister do we want to journey with us into the future we can envision?

I cannot wait to hear the answers, both for you personally and for the congregation as a whole. Who will you dare to be this year?

Warmly,
Rev. Amy

Minister’s mUUsings – December 2022 -- November 21, 2022

Normally, at this time of the year, I try to remind everyone to take some time to be still. But this year is a little different.

Here at UUCOV we are swinging into the hustle and bustle of our busiest season. The Rockin’ Holiday Dance is coming up quickly, the amazing Art & More Auction event not too far behind. Sunday mornings are getting full. We are heading toward the beginning of the stewardship campaign, and conversations about what it means to be the stewards of the church.

Because we are stewards, or caretakers of the church, we get it all; the good and the bad. The celebrations, the community, and the bills.

We’re in it together, and we try to take care of one another.

But we’re not just stewards of the church. We’re stewards of the world.

And the world needs us now, perhaps more than ever.

In this busy season of joy, I would ask that you do something simple. Be alert. Look for the places where you can live your values. Look for the places where you can be the church in the world, because the world isn’t very safe for some people right now.

Let an LGBTQ+ friend or relative or coworker know that you see them, that you see their beloved family. Let them know that you are there for them if they need you.

Let a Jewish friend or neighbor or relative know that you do not support anti-Semitism, and that you can be trusted to fight it when you see it.

Rise up against racism, and against the oppression of black people. Make a conscious decision to engage in the work of disabling racism. Intervene. Speak up. If you don’t know how to help, ask. Let black friends, and relatives, and neighbors know that they are not alone in this fight.

Speak up for the Muslim being bullied in the coffee shop.

Stop and film the black or brown or queer kids being arrested. Ask if they need help. Do not walk away.

Speak up for the Hispanic family being told to speak English or for the Chinese or Korean family told to go back where they came from.

Say something. Do something. Refuse to be complicit in oppression or hatred this holiday season or any other time.

Help to heal a hurting world. Be the global steward you were born to be.

 

Warmly,

Rev. Amy